I didn’t want to be a trainer. I had no desire to leave the field. I was a salesperson; competitive by nature, and I enjoyed the accolades and recognition that came with achieving goals. From a career standpoint, I just wanted to manage a team, but I knew very little about leadership. So, senior leadership said, “Put her in training. There she will learn.” Wait, what?
Becoming a sales trainer ended up being a transformational role for me, but it didn’t start out that way. At first, I thought it was just a springboard to management. I hated the thought of sitting in endless meetings, managing budgets, and working 8 hours in a cubicle. But those things ended up being the easier things to adapt to – it was the more practical things I wished someone had prepared me for. With this preparation, perhaps I would have spent a little less of my first year in training feeling drained and defeated. If I were to speak to my much younger self, as she began her first training role, there are five things I would tell her:
1. If you do not learn something from the people you are training; chances are, they will learn nothing from you.
2. Those that think they need training the least are the ones who need it the most.
I was that rep. I had been the one with years of experience in the industry, and here comes the new trainer who never made a number in her life, and she was going to show me how to be successful? Fat chance. News flash! Success isn’t about time served, and experience doesn’t always equate to knowledge. In my years as a trainer, the lessons I learned at the senior center always resonated. I knew my audiences well, and eventually championed the tenure of every class I led. I came to realize that a learner becomes more engaged and far more open to learning themselves if they can be part of the process and share what they already know. Many times since, I have had a learner commend me because they came in believing I couldn’t teach them anything new, and they left learning something of value. You need to earn your stripes, kid. Once you do, you will have their attention.